Wednesday, October 4, 2017

Focusing on You

Focusing on You
“Enjoy your own life without comparing it with that of another.”
~ Marquis De Condorcet, French Philosopher

Comparing yourself to someone else can cause an endless spiral of regret and jealously that destroys happiness and self-esteem. Be proud of your accomplishments personally and professionally and embrace the fact that you are unique and different from everyone around you.

When we compare ourselves to others, we are losing time each day by focusing on things that we could do better. Whether it’s comparing income levels, career success, or worldly travels, appreciate your success story instead of someone else’s.

Instead of comparing yourself to others, try to find inspiration in what others have done. Ask questions, set personal goals, and learn from what others have successfully accomplished without it negatively impacting your attitude.

With social media a daily part of all our lives, it’s easy to fall into a trap of checking what friends have accomplished and comparing it to your successes. Never allow social media to take over specific feelings you have for yourself. No matter what other people have accomplished, remind yourself of the things you have and the memories you made.


When you compare yourself to others personally or professionally, feelings of defeat and regret stand in the way of achieving more. Avoid comparing yourself to others and enjoy all the things you have worked hard for and successfully accomplished. 


Kelly D. Scott
Chairman/CEO
Vistage Florida
better leaders decisions results

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